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    人真的很脆弱

    其实,这些天来我心情很好,到现在也是。只是,我想说的就是人的生命很宝贵。因为宝贵而脆弱。有许许多多的凡事,其实不值得去计较,但是有些人就是这样计较、争抢了一辈子,自己也没有料到自己会在最后的日子里还跟亲人在争吵、生气。有时候,我会说,为什么这样?为什么就活不明白呢?
    她是位老人,对她没有太多别的印象,因为小,只是记得她经常来做客,嘴巴凌厉,做事计较。但那都是过去的事了,如今她已经不在了,就让这些事情淡忘吧,她可以和她的爱人团聚了。还记得,两个月前,我第一次去她家。当然也是很多年没有见过她了。面色红润,头脑清醒,除了腿脚因为糖尿病并发症带来的不方便以外,一切都很健康的样子。一进门,就拉我坐在她的身边,握着我的手,说这个姑娘长大了,变漂亮了,舅姥儿岁数大了,我得戴上眼镜好好瞅瞅,呵呵~~~
    那回的行程都好紧张,在她家住了一晚上,我光顾得跟她外孙女聊天看电视了。。。。。第二天一早我们就离开了,记得那会儿说以后休年假的时候一定要再来,在这里多住一阵子,可以让妹妹带你去海边玩儿,去逛市场,吃海鲜。。。。。。我还记得她对我说,我身体不好,你小姨又没太大耐心。。。。其实,我觉得她就是太计较了,有时候,人老了,岁数大了,好多就可以放手了,不要去管那么多了,要不然怎么才能叫安享晚年呢?
    真没想到,这么快,没有任何预兆的她就走了,那次就成了我最后一次见她了。。。。。。请走好,我依然尊敬您!
     
     
    警示:请各位多保重自己的身体,保持良好心态,凡事宽容大度。
     

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    静 黄wrote:
    回玮玮姐:我没有要伤她心的意思,我只希望看过这篇日志的所有人都能放宽心态,过的轻松快乐。其实,对于舅姥姥的去世,我是很难过的,毕竟我前一阵子刚刚见过她,好多影像总在我脑子里浮现,让我很感慨。。。。。。希望咱们这一代不要像他们一样。不用想太多才会活得更开心更自在。
    Nov. 6
    Miranda Wangwrote:
    妹妹呀~很多事情你不了解,不要评论老人,最起码,她待你很真诚,这就足够我们尊敬她了,人上了年纪,不是计较或什么没活明白,与家人的小摩擦都是事出有因的,家家有本难念的经,你永远不会理解她的想法的,多些理解就好了,老人一辈子不容易,她若知道你这样想会伤心的...
    Nov. 6

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